You've Been the Nice Guy Your Whole Life...
And It's Cost You Your Soul
You’ve bent over backwards to be...
• The peacekeeper
• The dependable husband
• The good employee The fixer
You’ve made her happy.
Them happy.
Everyone happy.
But who’s made you happy?
You feel Exhausted, Resentful,
and Quietly Angry.
And the truth is...
This has come at an immense cost.
Sound Familiar?
According to Dr. Robert Glover, "Nice Guys" often...
• Are givers and caretakers
• Seek approval and avoid conflict
• Repress feelings and hide flaws
• Say "yes" when they mean "no"
•Make their partner their emotional center
But there's a darker side
(in addition to the anxiety that accompanies being a nice guy)...
The Hidden Cost of Being "Nice"
What you Think
Makes You a Nice Guy
- Giving and caretaking
- Avoiding conflict
- Seeking approval
- Hiding flaws and mistakes
- Saying “yes” when you mean “no”
- Being easygoing and agreeable
- Suppressing emotions
- Making your partner your emotional center
What it's
Actually Costing You
- Hidden resentment
- Passive-aggressive behavior
- No sense of self
- Lack of integrity
- No boundaries, no respect
- Chronic anxiety and inner turmoil
- Emotional numbness
- Losing your identity
This can lead to a life without:
• Self-respect
• A clear identity
• Emotional honesty
• Real boundaries
• Freedom
Does this resonate?
You may feel broken, but you’re not…
You’re just stuck in a program you created for coping long ago where you learned strategies to
Earn love
Avoid pain
And keep the peace-even if it means losing yourself.
IMMERSIVE COACHING
What if your healing doesn't come from doing more, but finally stopping?
This is not:
• Advice
• Therapy
• Motivational fluff
• Productivity Hacks from reading a book or purchasing another program
This is a mirror with someone to help you finally face it.
Through stillness, reflection, and unfiltered honesty, you’ll finally:
• Stop seeking approval
• Say “no” without guilt
• Make peace with your past
• Stop abandoning yourself to make others comfortable
• Reclaim your voice--even when it shakes
• Accept who you are—without shame
• Design a life that’s actually yours
This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering who you were before the world told you to be someone else.
My Story:
I learned to lie about my feelings in high school.
I remember the day my mom picked me up when school was out in our yellow Mercedes. “How was your day?” she asked.
I was hurting. Something had gone wrong at school, and I have no recollection about what it even was. But I do remember the moment I experimented with trying to be honest. I started to speak, and she cut me off with:
“You have no reason to be sad. Look at all you have!”
That was the moment I learned to shut it down and stop experimenting with honesty. And I got really good at hiding what was real. Not just with my mother, but with everyone. Most of all, with myself.
From then on, I stuffed whatever sadness or anxiety surfaced. From then on, I smiled and lied and told everyone that I was “just great!” And, from then on, I avoided difficult conversations and just agreed with whatever anyone told me.
It cost me decades (literally decades) of self-doubt, anxiety, fear, overthinking, people-pleasing, avoiding... you name it.
It was a turning point on my path to becoming a "Nice Guy."
But let’s be honest--I’d been walking that path long before that moment.Does this resonate with you?
If you’ve been
• Smiling when you’re actually anxious...
• Saying “Yes” when you mean, “Hell, no!”...
• Hiding what’s real just to keep the peace...
I've spoken with many who share a similar story.
So, you're not the only one, and you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Book a free insight call,
and let's see what past patterns
brought you this far.
Who is this For?
This is for men who:
• Feel shame for wanting more but don’t even know what “more” is
• Hide behind humor, helpfulness, and humility, but feel empty
• Are successful on the outside but silently collapsing inside
• Feel like they’re living a life they never chose
And for those ready to stop pleasing and start living.
What You'll Get in Your Free Insight Call
Even if we never work together, here’s what you’ll get:
• 45 minutes of raw, honest conversation
• We’ll cut through the noise and name what’s really going on
• You’ll leave with clarity (even if we never speak again)
• You’ll know if it’s time to stop hiding
This isn’t a pitch, and you won't be sold.
It’s a wake-up call to see whether you're ready to move forward.
Most men never do this because they’re used to fooling themselves.
But you’re not most men.
You don’t need another book. Or podcast. Or pep talk.P.S.
Many guys will keep scrolling
past this and go back to
numbing out with...
• TV
• Porn
• Work
• Bourbon
• Video games
• People-Pleasing
• Or anything else to tune out and escape the feelings that continue to surface
They’ll go back to being “nice”
and pretending that everything is "just great!”
instead of allowing someone to help them face the man in the mirror.
The man they were meant to be.
But you’re still here.
That voice inside you?
THAT'S the man you were meant to be.
He’s in there.